But if parents and family members can appreciate and respond to her deep need for harmony, her love of knowledge and craftsmanship and her refined tastes, they can help her to find the confidence to gradually accommodate those aspects of reality which she finds so threatening.

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but if parents and family members can appreciate and respond to her deep need for harmony, her love of knowledge and craftsmanship and her refined tastes, they can help her to find the confidence to gradually accommodate those aspects of reality which she finds so threatening.